
Yesterday, I left my boys at home, and went back to Waterloo for a Girls' Night Out! This was only the second time I've left Jack overnight for something fun and exciting. It was so much fun to spend time with some of my best friends.
Friends.
I've noticed as I get older (25, gasp!) that most people aren't surrounded by close, best friends. I am so lucky to have a couple really, really good friends. I have Eric and Jack, whom I love, but I also have the best little group of girlfriends ever. Whether we're shopping with my little man, or sharing martinis while out on the town, it never gets old or boring. We laugh, give advice, chit-chat, and mostly support each other through the many changing stages of our lives. Boyfriends, babies, houses, cars, clothes, and much more...I am thankful for you girls.
Food.
It's funny...as soon as food lands in our faces, we are quiet! Autumn, Lexie, and I made dinner reservations at the Brown Bottle, a locally owned Italian restaurant in the heart of downtown Waterloo. Our last memorable time there was senior prom night...so it brought back lots of memories. We devoured the home-made roasted garlic dressing, devoured only half of our amazing entrees (so we wouldn't be too full for martinis!), and gossiped.
Lazy river at the pool.
Being at the pool without Jack was weird for me. I love people watching, but now at the pool I baby watch. I watched the wee littles faces as they were blasted with buckets of water on the lazy river. I watched little boys run around and play -- looking forward to my little guy running around at the pool. I stared at the other family dynamics and oodled over some great dads hanging out with their kids. It made me miss my little man so much, but I did enjoy the relaxing girl talk without burp rags and Gerber puffs.
Martinis.
Downtown cosmopolitans, white chocolate martinis, and a root beer float were sipped at a tucked away bar called the Cellar, also downtown Waterloo. We studied the menu forever, each ordered a different martini, and then shared with each other as we chatted the night away.

Fireworks.
Fireworks in Waterloo have become more and more interesting as the years go by. I used to plan my summer around My Waterloo Days and the fireworks. I loved running into people I only saw at these events and I looked forward to the strawberry slushies and mini-donuts. I obsessed over what to wear, and we always made sure to have the biggest group of people to go with. This year, however, I saw things through different eyes. I noticed lots of strollers being pushed by young, definitely too young, single moms. The bridges that once were filled with people and booths were blocked off and patrolled by numerous police officers. There wasn't a strawberry slushie to be found. I don't know the reason for the changes, but the fireworks atmosphere has definitely changed. Sad really...we did run into some friends we knew, and the actual fireworks show was great.

Mr. Mom.
I am so thankful for Eric. He encourages me to have these little getaways with friends. He gears up for "boys night" and plans out their time together. I never have to worry about Eric with Jack -- he's the best dad I've ever seen! He's so determined to be there for every little step. This morning when I got back home, Eric and Jack were matching: white polos, blue plaid shorts, and smiles on their faces. When I pulled up they were sitting on the porch, just back from a neighborhood stroll waiting for me. The house was picked up, bottles were already washed, and most importantly Jack and Eric were happy and excited to see me. Oh, what would I do without Eric??

A little piece of my heart goes missing when I'm away from my family, but thanks to great friends I'm still able to have a good time. It was nice to get away...I missed Eric and Jack SO bad. I truly believe distance makes the heart grow fonder...and my car couldn't drive fast enough this morning to get back to my little boogs and hubby!
A good friend is a connection to life - a tie to the past, a road to the future, the key to sanity in a totally insane world. ~Lois Wyse